阅读下面短文.并根据所读内容在文章后的表格中填上最恰当的单词. 注意:每空1个单词.请将答案写在相应题号的横线上. The origin of most con

阅读下面短文，并根据所读内容在文章后的表格中填上最恰当的单词。

       注意：每空1个单词。请将答案写在相应题号的横线上。

       The origin of most conflicts develops as a result of the opinion that each party feels he/she is "right"．This then leads to a heated debate unless one or two things occurs :one person backs down and admits defeat; discussions are sought for conciliation（调解）．To effectively deal with a conflict, one must begin with a change of heart on the topic．You could both be right, or both be wrong．The most difficult yet most important thing to keep in mind is to be honest and objective（客观的）The desire to be right at all costs or to avoid admitting being in the wrong is what leads to disappointment and aggressiveness．

       It is necessary to take time to consider the other person's point of view．Thinking about the other person doesn't mean you stop thinking about yourself．However, this puts you in the situation of being able to find an appropriate middle ground．

      In some cases, a compromise is not acceptable．A compromise is often based on give -and-take of each person involved．However, when it comes to fundamentals （like morals and values）, a compromise is actually giving up one's principles．If this is the case, one must be open and honest about one’s principles and explain one's point of view to the fullest．If the argument is strong enough, it could triumph on its own．

       In response to each person's full explanation of his or her point of view, the other person must listen Listening means not only listening to the words being said but also the meaning being intended．Trying to speak louder, fashter and more forcefully than the other person only limits the other’s ability to express his/her message．Name calling, improper gestures, and violence are childish means of self-satisfaction at the expense of the other．

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