完形填空 Children model themselves largely on their parents．They do so mainly throug

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Children model themselves largely on their parents．They do so mainly through identification(鉴别身份)．Children identify with a parent when they 1 they have the qualities and feelings that are characteristics(特点)of that 2．The things parents do and say－and the 3 they do and say to them－therefore strongly influence(影响)a child's 4．However, parents must consistently behave(行为)like the type of 5 they want their child to become．

A parent's actions 6 affect the self-image(自我估价)that a child forms 7 identification．Children who see mainly positive(积极的)qualities in their 8 will likely learn to see themselves in a positive way．Children who observe chiefly 9 qualities in their parents will have difficulty 10 positive qualities in themselves．Children may 11 their self-image, however, as they become increasingly 12 by peer(同龄人)group standards before they reach 13．

Isolated(孤立的)events, 13 dramatic(戏剧性的)ones, do not necessarily have a permanent(永久的)14 on a child's behavior．Children interpret such events according to their established attitudes and previous(原先的)training．Children who know they are loved can, 15, accept the divorce(离婚)of their parents or a parent's early 16．But if children feel unloved, they may interpret(理解)such events as a sign of rejection(抛弃)or 17．

In the same way, all children are 18 influenced alike(相似的)by toys and games, reading matter, and television programs．19 in the case of a dramatic change in family relations, the 20 of an activity or experience depends on how the child interprets it．

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