完形填空 A high school history teacher once told us, “If you make one close friend i

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A high school history teacher once told us, “If you make one close friend in school, you will be most fortunate．A true friend is someone who stays with you for life．” 1 tells us that he was right．Good friendship is just not easily 2．

It is possible that we simply do not stay in one place long enough for a 3 friendship to develop．However, there can be no disagreement on the 4 for each of us to think carefully about the 5 of friendship we want．

To most of us, friendships are 6 very important, but we need to have clear in our 7 the kinds of friendship we want．Are they to be close or 8 at arm’s length? Do we want to share ourselves or do we want to walk on the 9? For some people, many friendships on the surface are 10 enough and that’s all right．But at some point, 11 to make sure that our expectations are the same as our friends’ expectations．The 12 of personal experience including our tears as well as our dark dreams is the 13 way to deepen friendships．But it must be undertaken(进行)slowly and 14 only if there are signs of interest and action in return．

What are some of the 15of friendship? The greatest is the attraction to expect too much time．Another “16difficulty” is the selfishness to take actions too soon．Deep relationships 17 one “possesses” the other, including his time and attention．18, friendships in return．In other words, you must give as much as you take．19 there is a question of taking care of them．20 you spend reasonable time together, talking on the phone, writing letters, doing things together, friendships will die away．

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