The need for love is deeply rooted in the human psyche. 1. According to psycholo

The need for love is deeply rooted in the humanpsyche(灵魂).   1.  Accordingto psychologists, separateness means to be cut off, helpless and alone in theworld. It is the source of all anxiety.

 2.  It can be selfish and possessive, or unselfish andgiving. Abraham Maslow distinguishes between two kinds of love: B-love or“being love” means love for another person: unselfish love not dependent uponyour own needs. D-love or “deficiency-love” is a selfish possessive love whichis based upon someone else’s ability to satisfy your needs.

D-love is conditional. It depends upon whetherpersonal needs continue to be met. But B-love is unconditional.   3.  Furthermore,as it depends upon who you are, it is possible only when you allow yourself tobe known to the other person.

The psychologist Erich Fromm also distinguishedbetween two types of love.   4.  Symbioticunion is an immature love based upon the satisfaction of needs and is similarto Maslow’s concept of D-love.

Mature love, on the other hand, is a relationship thatallows individuals to retain(保持) their independence,their identity, and their integrity. In mature love people can overcome theirsense of separateness yet continue to be themselves. The immature lover wouldsay, “I love you because I need you,” but the mature one: “ 5. ”

A．These twotypes are quite different from each other.

B．There are twotypes of love.

C．I need youbecause I love you.

D．Love is a wayof overcoming the feeling separateness.

E．Every one of us needslove.

F．It depends not upon whatyou do, but who you are.

G．They are immature love,called by him symbiotic union(共同体), and mature love.

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【答案】

1.D

2.B

3.F

4.G

5.C

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