Remember your first romantic disappointment? Remember the pain and unhappiness o

Remember your first romantic disappointment? Remember the pain and unhappiness of breaking-up--uncertainty?

Winne recalls feeling very sad after her first true love deserted（抛弃）her. Her mom came into her room carrying a beautiful nightgown and handed it to her, gave her a hug and said,“I know you are feeling very heartbroken. I thought you could use something to make you feel beautiful right now.”The nightgown didn't make Winne's hurt go away, but she knew that her mother understood and cared about her feelings.

As a parent, as much as you want to make it all better for your teens, give them space. Tell him or her that break-ups are hard and you are there for him whenever he wants to speak to you. Then let go.

Teenage girls often deal with break-ups by talking on the phone with their friends or diving into the Internet for a long chat. They review all the hurts and pains that are being cured. Boys react to broken relationships differently. Boys often become angry since that, unfortunately, is the only emotional（感情）choice that society accepts for boys. Some boys hide their pain. Respect your teen, when a relationship breaks up. It takes time to get over it, and the only way to get through that is to get through it.

Sometimes teenagers get into trouble while trying to feel accepted again or win back a loved one. Keep reaching out to troubled teenagers. At first, teens will refuse a parent's attempts to help. Don't be afraid to insist.

Teen break-ups can cause heart-wrenching pain, but sooner or later teenagers should be ready to date（约会）again. How can you make your child toward a healthy relationship? Teens are likely to meet others like themselves through activities. The secret to attracting good boys or girls is to become your own independent person who feels good about who she is and what she's about.

(1) The beautiful nightgown Winne's mother handed to her ________.

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A．made her heart brokenB．made her feel beautiful right nowC．didn't make her feel betterD．made her understand her mother

(2) In the first paragraph, the underlined word“uncertainty”means ________.

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A．doubtB．unreturned loveC．pain and unhappiness of breaking upD．dissatisfaction

(3) Which of the following is NOT true according to the passage?

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A．Parents should be patient with their children, be a good listener and help them.

B．Teenage girls like to talk with friends and engage themselves in a long chat on the Internet when broken relationships happen to them.

C．Boys are usually becoming angry or hiding their pain.

D．Teenagers always refuse parents' attempts to help when they are in trouble.

试题答案

答案：C;C;D